Saturday, March 20, 2010

picnic bash



No relevance to any person or people
There are certain things in life that actually make people differentiate from themselves. There was a time when each department’s 2nd year batch was craving for picnic. It was during this time that a sad demise of one of our beloved friend took place. Now People were quiet enthusiastic and were almost very much ready for this tantalizing experience. On the other side there was a good friend of mine who protested and decided to deprive himself of this pleasure, he was of the opinion that any case, the person who died was one of our friends and barely a week has passed after such grieving situation so we should quit on such fancy ideas. Whereas the enthusiastic people stressed on having fun as winter would be over soon or maybe who cares about his death. It is a part of life and is invincible. Today our friend died tomorrow someone else then we don’t have enough time left for ourselves. Life should go on.
Truly this confounding situation is hard to diagnose. But hey the climax is not over yet. Amid such insurgency there emerges a batch (metallurgy 2nd year batch). This batch has got another problem, the only batch which is barred of such celebration and the stifling concern. The people have good link within themselves but the batch has not got unity. I got a call a Saturday morning which stated, “We are going to picnic”. I was having some mixed reaction to this blatant statement; anyways I figured it’s not difficult unless we were good at pleading and persuading. It took a whole afternoon licking people’s ass but finally we got nothing. More than half of the people had imposed a requiting denial for our flamboyant event, which further deterred our interests among our branch mates. This is not a peculiar situation its quite normal the conscience of people is not under scrutiny over here but it’s the prejudiced nature which is mutually dismaying the compatibility which is required as a group. The main problem what I think is that people have not got respect for each other due to the conservative nature which makes them feel secure, or even make them feel they are above everybody. Content and happy with what they are which I think is a superb philosophy to get along their years in the insti without knowing anybody at least each other, happy with their group. Well all that I perceive about all the above things may be false, it maybe that the propriety is maintained in our branch but I may not be visible to me. Whatever it is it shall also pass
When asked, people often suggest mutual consent, collaboration as the solution for the above problem but this also fades away as a hypothetical consideration which only can foster on under idle conditions. What it looks like to me is that one has to give in some commitment to know each other as a person, support one another for any initiative or work; rest all depends on fate. People have conflicting views and assertions, that’s why we differ from each other and we have tensions in life; but we know, a fabulous day is made only when sun and moon do not intervene each other. These differentiation, classification of people is the root cause of all problems. But then it may be the law of nature (struggle for …… survival of fittest………) that our opinions do not match and urges us on for this futile struggle.

Sudhir Saha

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